<p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">“情人節(jié)”日聊婚姻</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻是終生大事。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">它關(guān)乎人生福禍，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">它關(guān)乎事業(yè)成敗，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">它關(guān)乎家族興衰。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">因此要慎之又慎。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻基礎(chǔ)：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">門當(dāng)戶對(duì)，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">三觀近同。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">情緣互投，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">性格相融。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻需要情緣。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">情是情感，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">緣即緣分。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">常言說(shuō)：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">十年修得同船渡，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">百年修得共枕眠；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">詩(shī)說(shuō)：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">問(wèn)世間情為何物？</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">直教生死相許；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">嘆人生緣是何因？</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">須等百年一遇；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">佛說(shuō)：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">前世五百次回眸，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">才換來(lái)今生一次相逢。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">這些“說(shuō)”，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">就是情緣。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">有情無(wú)緣擦肩而過(guò)，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">有緣無(wú)情同事一場(chǎng)，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">情緣相投互為知己。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">杭州西湖孤山月下老人祠著名的對(duì)聯(lián)對(duì)情緣做了最好的注釋：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">愿天下有情人都成了眷屬，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">是前生注定事莫錯(cuò)過(guò)姻緣。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">青梅竹馬兩小無(wú)猜易生情，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">萍水相逢一見如故易鐘情，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">患難與共生死相救易陷情。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚前兩只眼睛要睜得大一點(diǎn)，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚后盡量睜一只眼閉一只眼。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">男人是天要自強(qiáng)不息；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">女人是地要厚德載物。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">沒(méi)有完美的婚姻，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">只有合適的伴侶。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">家里需要講情，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">家里不須講理。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">吵吵鬧鬧一輩子，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">不叛不離是夫妻。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">一輩子沒(méi)吵過(guò)嘴，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">一輩子沒(méi)紅過(guò)臉。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">那是書中的婚姻，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">那是戲中的夫妻。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">寬容包容，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">平凡平淡，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">臻于圓滿。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">感性的至極是放浪不羈，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">理性的至極是尊道守正。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">太感性過(guò)不了柴米油鹽，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">太理性享不了風(fēng)花雪月。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">情亂不壽，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">慧極必傷。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">食色是本能本性，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">自律是本分本事。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻的最美祝福：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">相呴以濕相濡以沫，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">?永不相忘于江湖；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">同甘共苦同舟共濟(jì)，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">永結(jié)同心于人生。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻的最佳狀態(tài)：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">浪漫轉(zhuǎn)化為平淡，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">愛情轉(zhuǎn)化為親情。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">契約轉(zhuǎn)化為責(zé)任，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">奔波轉(zhuǎn)化為廝守。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">婚姻的最高境界：</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">執(zhí)子之手，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">與子偕老；</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">不予其二，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">?從一而終。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">年華可鑒，</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;">歲月作證。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:22px;"> ??</span></p>